If you look at OU's roster, HS stats are listed for almost every player...some by year. That's the top program in the country, and its recruits certainly aren't all from the local area.
I'm not outright saying HS stats don't matter. In my post I stated that at the end of the day I believe top players always stand out no matter where they play. And if there are school/state accolades that can be collected then for sure that matters. But, I also tend to believe that's not all that a college coach would go by. If my DD starts collecting school, conference, and/or state records you better believe we'll be listing those in recruitment communications.
I'd be curious (and I need to go look) what high schools OU players have played for and then see what areas those schools are in. Are they in no-where x-State or are they in softball hotbeds?
Not arguing. Just food for thought.
Edit: Also let it be known I am not a college coach. I do not know a college HC. Nor have we started any recruitment process. My opinion is simply based on talking to others and reading through DFP.