Been there, done that. If your DD wants to play at a higher level, the two of you need to find a group with similar attitudes. You will not be able to drag that group anywhere near where you seem to want to go. We wasted a year trying that.
Sounds like she is already on another club team. Just don't sign up again with the group that you feel is holding you back. No explanation is needed. If anyone asks you just say you and DD didn't have time and too bad because DD really liked playing with their kid. No one's feelings get hurt and you don't get trashed.
Sounds like she is already on another club team. Just don't sign up again with the group that you feel is holding you back. No explanation is needed. If anyone asks you just say you and DD didn't have time and too bad because DD really liked playing with their kid. No one's feelings get hurt and you don't get trashed.