- Oct 19, 2011
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Hey all,
I wanted to get some of your thoughts on a situation with my daughter's 10U travel team. This was our 2nd yr doing this....and it was horrible. We played in 8-9 three-game guarantee tournaments this year and won 2 games, and the ones that we lost.....we lost horribly with our last game this weekend being a 27-0 spanking.
The coach is a good guy who tries. It's definitely not because of a lack of effort on his part, we've practiced all year, 2-4 times a week and usually 3 hr practices. He's very competitive, which is great, but it gets to a point in the games where he's gets mad when the girls make mistakes and he yells at them, then the girls get upset and it all goes to pot for the rest of the day. The other teams would always hope to play us because they knew that it would be a win for them.
After the dismal season we've had, us parents have decided to have a meeting amongst ourselves and decide where we want to go going forward, with some of them having already decided that they will not stay with the team because of how it went this year. I have been involved with the current coach over the past 3-4 yrs with both daughters on 5 different teams and they have all had horrible records. Which brings me to the point of this.....I have been asked by some of the parents to take over as the head coach.
A little background about me, I have 2 daughters who have played softball for the past 6 yrs. I have only missed 2 games in that time, I was an assistant coach on two of their teams, (T-ball & 6-8 yr old Minor League, which we were the League Champions) and I've also been a Coordinator. I've been around it enough that I know pretty much all of the rules and what works with girls and what doesn't. Most of what my daughters have learned, I have taught them and they have always had people bragging on how good they play, even complete strangers at the tournaments have mentioned how good my daughters are. They are both very sought out players and while I'm not bragging, I think that it's a testament of how I can get the best out of my girls. Sure, I push them but they can always see the result and are happy with themselves for being able to do something that they thought impossible.
So, my dilemma is.....should I take the team if the current coach leaves or is asked to leave? I think that I could do a good job but I've never been a head coach before. I guess what I'm doing is second guessing myself but has anyone ever been in this position; had a head coach with an awful record, been asked by parents to replace him and been successful? I think that I can turn these girls around, 85% of the team is very talented, I've seen how good they can be but the current coach can't seem to bring out their best when they get on the playing field.
Any suggestions?
I wanted to get some of your thoughts on a situation with my daughter's 10U travel team. This was our 2nd yr doing this....and it was horrible. We played in 8-9 three-game guarantee tournaments this year and won 2 games, and the ones that we lost.....we lost horribly with our last game this weekend being a 27-0 spanking.
The coach is a good guy who tries. It's definitely not because of a lack of effort on his part, we've practiced all year, 2-4 times a week and usually 3 hr practices. He's very competitive, which is great, but it gets to a point in the games where he's gets mad when the girls make mistakes and he yells at them, then the girls get upset and it all goes to pot for the rest of the day. The other teams would always hope to play us because they knew that it would be a win for them.
After the dismal season we've had, us parents have decided to have a meeting amongst ourselves and decide where we want to go going forward, with some of them having already decided that they will not stay with the team because of how it went this year. I have been involved with the current coach over the past 3-4 yrs with both daughters on 5 different teams and they have all had horrible records. Which brings me to the point of this.....I have been asked by some of the parents to take over as the head coach.
A little background about me, I have 2 daughters who have played softball for the past 6 yrs. I have only missed 2 games in that time, I was an assistant coach on two of their teams, (T-ball & 6-8 yr old Minor League, which we were the League Champions) and I've also been a Coordinator. I've been around it enough that I know pretty much all of the rules and what works with girls and what doesn't. Most of what my daughters have learned, I have taught them and they have always had people bragging on how good they play, even complete strangers at the tournaments have mentioned how good my daughters are. They are both very sought out players and while I'm not bragging, I think that it's a testament of how I can get the best out of my girls. Sure, I push them but they can always see the result and are happy with themselves for being able to do something that they thought impossible.
So, my dilemma is.....should I take the team if the current coach leaves or is asked to leave? I think that I could do a good job but I've never been a head coach before. I guess what I'm doing is second guessing myself but has anyone ever been in this position; had a head coach with an awful record, been asked by parents to replace him and been successful? I think that I can turn these girls around, 85% of the team is very talented, I've seen how good they can be but the current coach can't seem to bring out their best when they get on the playing field.
Any suggestions?