John Rosemond is a nationallly syndicated old school child psychologist who I like a lot. In his recent article about homework and school, he wrote this :
"The underlying problem here is that for complex sociological and psychological reasons, today's moms tend to hang their sense of adequacy on the hooks of their children's achievement in school. Specifically, the unspoken assumption in American mommy culture is that the mom with the highest achieving kid is, somehow, the best mom."
Now , as a happily married guy who wants to stay that way, I'm not going to start pointing a finger at every mother out there. But, I must say that I have noticed in softball that this assertion of Rosemond's has quite a bit of truth to it. My biggest parent problems all have a mostly mom driven trajectory.
I want to tread very carefully here because I consider the moms on this site to be my equals when it comes to softball. So, my question is whether or not Rosemond's claim is applicable to softball.
"The underlying problem here is that for complex sociological and psychological reasons, today's moms tend to hang their sense of adequacy on the hooks of their children's achievement in school. Specifically, the unspoken assumption in American mommy culture is that the mom with the highest achieving kid is, somehow, the best mom."
Now , as a happily married guy who wants to stay that way, I'm not going to start pointing a finger at every mother out there. But, I must say that I have noticed in softball that this assertion of Rosemond's has quite a bit of truth to it. My biggest parent problems all have a mostly mom driven trajectory.
I want to tread very carefully here because I consider the moms on this site to be my equals when it comes to softball. So, my question is whether or not Rosemond's claim is applicable to softball.