- Jun 16, 2010
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I dont think you said how old she was. Obviously a 9 yr old would be handled differently from a 16.
Facing shortcomings, failures, rejections and learning how to handle them in a positive manner is part of growing up. You cant shield them forever, and besides, you shouldnt. See examples of adults all the time that never learned, blame others for everything, can never accept that it was their shortcomings that led to something.
If it was my DD, I would have told her immediately. I understand all parents and kids are different though.
Facing shortcomings, failures, rejections and learning how to handle them in a positive manner is part of growing up. You cant shield them forever, and besides, you shouldnt. See examples of adults all the time that never learned, blame others for everything, can never accept that it was their shortcomings that led to something.
If it was my DD, I would have told her immediately. I understand all parents and kids are different though.