I'm sorry that your DD (and your family) is going through this. I met your DW the night after this happened as she was waiting to talk with the coach and honestly felt horrible for her in that moment as I knew exactly what she was about to face. Most other parents and coaches just don't have the balls to face up to these asshat coaches and will lie and deny even when pressured under oath. They view this limited opportunity to play HS so important they will put up with just about anything. Sadly, I have first hand experience watching this type of shirt show unfold and I'm still extremely pissed and bitter about.
For clarification purposes - my DD's do not attend the school that the OP is speaking of but they are direct rivals and I know many of the parents, athletes and this coach in question. If I wasn't under a gag order I would love to share what we endured with our HS program over the past 4 years as a result of a POS coach who thought she could say and do anything without consequences.
As hard as it may be....run, don't walk from this situation. There are better things to do with your time, better life lessons and role models to learn from. I wish you and your family all the best! You know how to reach me if you ever want to talk further. Good luck, stay strong and be tough!!
For clarification purposes - my DD's do not attend the school that the OP is speaking of but they are direct rivals and I know many of the parents, athletes and this coach in question. If I wasn't under a gag order I would love to share what we endured with our HS program over the past 4 years as a result of a POS coach who thought she could say and do anything without consequences.
As hard as it may be....run, don't walk from this situation. There are better things to do with your time, better life lessons and role models to learn from. I wish you and your family all the best! You know how to reach me if you ever want to talk further. Good luck, stay strong and be tough!!