DD (16) seems as though she has reached that point where she does not a have high level of interest in working at her craft.
After school ball last year ended (the first part of TB at u18 when she was practicing) she was lights out. Then she stopped practicing and it showed. She got hit pretty bad the rest of the year.
She took the fall off. In December after Thanksgiving, I fully expected her to get back in the swing of things with her pitching coach and throwing 3 days a week at a minimum. Thus far, She has only thrown once...and every time i prod her, She gets very frustrated with me and we end up in a fight.
I have told her that unless she practices i am not springing for pitching lessons. Thats part of the deal for her to hold up her end.
I have tried to lay off her and not say anything to her about practicing. Very difficult for me because i can see her potential if she continues working at it. She does not seem to be motivated to reach her potential.
I am fearful that if she continues not to practice that other girls that are working hard at the HS level are going to overtake her. She doesnt seem to be worried. She has to want to do it. I cant force her to...I just dont know what to do or even if i should bother and just let her fail or succeed on her own. Just frustrating for me because after years of hard work and time, i can see the light at the end of the Tunnel. Entering her Junior year its her time to shine and i just cant make her see that. Frustrating.
After school ball last year ended (the first part of TB at u18 when she was practicing) she was lights out. Then she stopped practicing and it showed. She got hit pretty bad the rest of the year.
She took the fall off. In December after Thanksgiving, I fully expected her to get back in the swing of things with her pitching coach and throwing 3 days a week at a minimum. Thus far, She has only thrown once...and every time i prod her, She gets very frustrated with me and we end up in a fight.
I have told her that unless she practices i am not springing for pitching lessons. Thats part of the deal for her to hold up her end.
I have tried to lay off her and not say anything to her about practicing. Very difficult for me because i can see her potential if she continues working at it. She does not seem to be motivated to reach her potential.
I am fearful that if she continues not to practice that other girls that are working hard at the HS level are going to overtake her. She doesnt seem to be worried. She has to want to do it. I cant force her to...I just dont know what to do or even if i should bother and just let her fail or succeed on her own. Just frustrating for me because after years of hard work and time, i can see the light at the end of the Tunnel. Entering her Junior year its her time to shine and i just cant make her see that. Frustrating.
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