You make a very good point. After chewing this over a couple hours I came to realize you are right. I have been so focused on them nor giving my dd a chance that I didn't realize how selfish I was being.My dd does have more time to develop and those girls are the vets. They deserve to be the ones that are in there and need to be preparing to move up next spring. So thank you for opening my eyes.Thats another issue, in Rec when a kid is playing above her age. Sometimes she has to take a back seat so the older kids can develop in order to be ready when they are aged up. It may not seem fair, but when your kid has 3 years to develop, and the other kids have 1 sometimes the right thing is to give those older kids a chance, even if they may not be better. As they get older and move on to travel and HS ball, then the best one should be pitching. But in the younger ages, and in Rec it should ba about developing kids and sometimes that means someone elses kid gets developed first.
But Dd did something today to make me proud. On the way to her game she said she was gonna go to her coach and ask her coach to give her a shot. So when we got to the game she put her gear in the dugout and walked over to talk to her coach. I was setting up our box seats and glanced out of the corner of my eye to see my 8 yr old dd talking to her coach. When they were done she walked up to me smiling and said that she explained to her coach how she practiced 3 times week and took lessons. She said she asked her coach very politely to please give her a chance. HC told her she would let her tryout at the next practice to see what she had. Said there would be games comeing up where one of the pitchers would be gone.
I am so proud that my 8 yoa dd has enough maturity to aproach her coach in a poliite, respectful manner and request a shot, Not have her dad do it or demand it. I think that it also shows a level of confidence in her own ability. Whether she ever pitches for this team or not that was worth the $40 we paid for her to play.