Posting this without reading all five pages, but "You have to play for X travel team or I won't put you on varsity" is not OK. It doesn't even matter what team is best for her or whatever. He's using his position of power to essentially threaten her into doing something.
This is a lot different than saying "I think this other travel team would help you develop the skills needed to make our varsity team,"
I almost never would say this, but go to the AD immediately. Go above the AD if the AD does nothing. I can't imagine the coach making a statement like this would go over well with any state association, but I'm sure some are the Wild West compared to mine.
This is a lot different than saying "I think this other travel team would help you develop the skills needed to make our varsity team,"
I almost never would say this, but go to the AD immediately. Go above the AD if the AD does nothing. I can't imagine the coach making a statement like this would go over well with any state association, but I'm sure some are the Wild West compared to mine.