Just wanted to give an update here, as well as say thanks to everyone that replied. The panic was definitely unwarranted, and while we may have been able to make decisions that would have made the process a little smoother, it all worked out. She was offered by her two top choices based on her major, one D2, and one D3. She ended up committing to the D3 as it was much higher end academically, and just a better match overall. The academic money from the D3 also surpassed any combined package the D2 could put together. We are relieved to be done with the process, and excited for the future.
Just in case anyone else reads this that are in a similar situation, the determining factor was getting in front of the coaches. Attending and perforning well at the D2 camp put her on their radar, then subbing in a showcase tournament where she had an outstanding weekend sealed the deal. For the D3, the showcase along with video highlights were enough for an offer once they knew she was interested. The lack of interest from the D3 prior was apparently due to the coach getting married and an email address change that wasn't updated on the website. It took a follow of the coach on Twitter to let her know she was interested, and tagging her on video highlights from the showcase. From there, it was scheduling a visit and getting the offer. We definitely didn't use social media to our advantage until late. I would also advise Twitter direct messages or texts over email after first contact is made, as the responses were much quicker. Again, thanks to everyone for your input.
Just in case anyone else reads this that are in a similar situation, the determining factor was getting in front of the coaches. Attending and perforning well at the D2 camp put her on their radar, then subbing in a showcase tournament where she had an outstanding weekend sealed the deal. For the D3, the showcase along with video highlights were enough for an offer once they knew she was interested. The lack of interest from the D3 prior was apparently due to the coach getting married and an email address change that wasn't updated on the website. It took a follow of the coach on Twitter to let her know she was interested, and tagging her on video highlights from the showcase. From there, it was scheduling a visit and getting the offer. We definitely didn't use social media to our advantage until late. I would also advise Twitter direct messages or texts over email after first contact is made, as the responses were much quicker. Again, thanks to everyone for your input.