Up until about 12YOA, kids (boys and girls) play sports to be part of a team. They make friends and have a good time being with other kids. Some kids are real competitive with softball, others aren't.
Around 13YOA, the kids start deciding what they really want to do. A lot of kids quit sports...a lot of girls quit playing softball. I love softball, but lots of people do not.
IMHO, your DD enjoys being part of the team, but really doesn't like playing the game...and, she'll most likely quit when she has to go to 14U.
My advice is to introduce her to other sports and activities--drama, music, soccer, basketball, etc. See what she likes, and then let her do what she wants to do.
Around 13YOA, the kids start deciding what they really want to do. A lot of kids quit sports...a lot of girls quit playing softball. I love softball, but lots of people do not.
IMHO, your DD enjoys being part of the team, but really doesn't like playing the game...and, she'll most likely quit when she has to go to 14U.
My advice is to introduce her to other sports and activities--drama, music, soccer, basketball, etc. See what she likes, and then let her do what she wants to do.