fwiw...My daughters love rec ball too...as do I. The whole league is part of our town and community and I would never let my daughters NOT play rec ball. They also play outside of rec ball...but rec is a gimme.
As far as the bats...I agree and support the idea of just going to your local sports store and have your DD pick one out that is sized right and of the colors she (they) like (lol).
Your other option is to use the equipment that the rec league provides. Each rec league team should have an equipment bag supplied by the league, bats included. If the bats they provide aren't sufficient I would attend the next league meeting and ask the Equipment Director to make a proposal to purchase new Softball bats for all the teams, assuring they are appropriately sized for the ages intending on using them. You have some leverage here too in that the new rules have put a hardship on the many that play rec league...and the league should be providing equipment within the rules.
As far as the bats...I agree and support the idea of just going to your local sports store and have your DD pick one out that is sized right and of the colors she (they) like (lol).
Your other option is to use the equipment that the rec league provides. Each rec league team should have an equipment bag supplied by the league, bats included. If the bats they provide aren't sufficient I would attend the next league meeting and ask the Equipment Director to make a proposal to purchase new Softball bats for all the teams, assuring they are appropriately sized for the ages intending on using them. You have some leverage here too in that the new rules have put a hardship on the many that play rec league...and the league should be providing equipment within the rules.