As recruiting heats up, I can only describe it as a mix of high excitement/high stress. Just wanted to get some advice on enjoying the ride and not handling the anxiety that goes with it. That goes for both DD and parents.
DD has gotten some small college interest for several months now, but just in the past few weeks, some bigger more attractive schools have come knocking. DD has a couple of campus visits at coaches' invitation coming up. She's had those coaches come watch her play. She's about to play 3 out-of-state showcases in the next month to finish her year.
Any words of wisdom to ground us here? DD calls it overwhelming. She's missing 3 days of school, so there's academic stress as well. Biggest stress is the worry that her #1 school that is on the brink of making an offer will go in another direction. Some people say that if you miss one boat, another will come along, but a couple of these are at the top end of her skill level, so she may or may not have those opportunities again.
How do we enjoy it more? Or is this just the way it is until you commit?
DD has gotten some small college interest for several months now, but just in the past few weeks, some bigger more attractive schools have come knocking. DD has a couple of campus visits at coaches' invitation coming up. She's had those coaches come watch her play. She's about to play 3 out-of-state showcases in the next month to finish her year.
Any words of wisdom to ground us here? DD calls it overwhelming. She's missing 3 days of school, so there's academic stress as well. Biggest stress is the worry that her #1 school that is on the brink of making an offer will go in another direction. Some people say that if you miss one boat, another will come along, but a couple of these are at the top end of her skill level, so she may or may not have those opportunities again.
How do we enjoy it more? Or is this just the way it is until you commit?