If I'm not playing to win, then why am I even playing? That goes for card games, board games, video games, horseshoes, 1v1 basketball in the driveway, HS sports, competitive independent sports, etc. The whole point in any competition, where you have one or more competitors, is to take your skills and abilities and put them up against other's skills and abilities. The measurement of that contest is either a win, loose, draw.
Is winning life or death? Of course not, but for some reason I always feel better after a win, and feel like a hangover after a loss.
Do young kids know the effects of winning? Heck yeah they do. It's a vibe. They might not "feel it" the first game, might not feel it the first year, but they learn the difference in emotions of other players-parents-fans-coaches very fast between victory and defeat.
Is winning life or death? Of course not, but for some reason I always feel better after a win, and feel like a hangover after a loss.
Do young kids know the effects of winning? Heck yeah they do. It's a vibe. They might not "feel it" the first game, might not feel it the first year, but they learn the difference in emotions of other players-parents-fans-coaches very fast between victory and defeat.
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