Winning may be more important to the kids than some of the posters think.
I think about DD #1's freshman year in HS. She had a great softball summer before that, even getting 3rd place in a real tournament.
That fall, her 14u rec league team lost every game. At one point she and her best friend were so discouraged they wanted to quit the team in the middle of a double header. (A DFP poster was one of the coaches for the OTHER team ). I wouldn't let them.
DD #1 was also on a 16u TB team. The star pitcher broke her hand in a scrimmage, which they lost. They played in a tourney that fall, and lost both pool games. They were going to play some weak teams in bracket play, but rained out.
DD #1 quit softball after that.
She did come back in the spring to play for her school's freshman team. They only won 2 games that spring, and some of the losses were real heart breakers.
DD #1 never played a game of softball after that.
I think about DD #1's freshman year in HS. She had a great softball summer before that, even getting 3rd place in a real tournament.
That fall, her 14u rec league team lost every game. At one point she and her best friend were so discouraged they wanted to quit the team in the middle of a double header. (A DFP poster was one of the coaches for the OTHER team ). I wouldn't let them.
DD #1 was also on a 16u TB team. The star pitcher broke her hand in a scrimmage, which they lost. They played in a tourney that fall, and lost both pool games. They were going to play some weak teams in bracket play, but rained out.
DD #1 quit softball after that.
She did come back in the spring to play for her school's freshman team. They only won 2 games that spring, and some of the losses were real heart breakers.
DD #1 never played a game of softball after that.