- Jun 8, 2016
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So I guess the question is are there cases where coaches bring in kids with no real intention of getting them on the field or at the very least they view as a "project"...What I personally would do after going through the process twice would be to try to gauge the interest further by trying to figure out how my dd got on their list. Ask our TB coach if they had heard something from this school. If contact seems legit and like I said - is doable - then we might entertain the camp. Dd attended camps starting in 8th grade (D1 and D2) just to get an idea of what they were like. These were camps local to us that were affordable.
Obviously if the interest is just a general “casting call” and would require a lot of money and effort to get to then, for me, it would be a no-go.
ETA: I pretty much had a good idea about which schools were serious or not based on knowing who dd had emailed and which coaches have attended our games.
Every few years there is a kid who is recruited by OU (and eventually signs) who is from OK who realistically has no chance of ever playing any significant amount..TBH I think Patty does it to make sure people don't complain about there not being enough OK kids on the roster.
Basically I am a control freak, cynic and narcissist and hence think I know more than college coaches about my kid's abilities and in general don't trust them. I know a few college coaches who I wouldn't trust as far as I could throw them (and they are fat..) So with that I am not a fan of just blindly using coaches "interest" as a means of determining whether my kid is ever going to play when that is one of her goals (eg to see the field at some point during her 4 years...). Unfortunately I have said worse things to my DD than "You cannot play there.."
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