The stuff in the NCAA ads is correct as to D2 and D3 athletics. The kids really play simply because they love the game.
But, as to D1 athletics, it is all about the dollar.
Apparently, marriad and I are in violent agreement as to D1.
If someone really wants the "student athlete" experience, she should play D3. It is much less demanding than D1.
and a top D3 will be more demanding than a mid-lower level D1
You're wrong.
My DD#3 played D3 basketball and won a national championship. For all 4 years, her team was ranked in the top 10 nationally. I think you would have to classify her team as "Top D3" program. DD#1 played D1 softball for a mid-major.
The main difference between D3 and D1 is in the off-season.
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