A player needs to be confident in their abilities and be ready to "step up" and show what they can do when playing in front of college coaches. If they are worried about being "shown up" by one of their teammates, is that school really a good fit? Players need to have realistic expectations about their abilities, and concentrate their recruiting efforts on colleges where they think they will be success athletically and academically. Sometimes an A- player with A+ grades is a better fit than an A+ player with C- grades....