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Re: Politics:
I know from reading this board there are many high schools that have good programs, but many do not.
DD #1 played on this team when she was in HS so we already know how this coach operates,. I have found it is best, and continue to remind myself, to avoid the negative and focus on the positive. He is a football coach who is a personal friend of the AD (who is the Football Head Coach). Every year there are kids who make the Varsity team for the wrong reason(kids who pay for hitting instruction from him, Sisters of players he likes, daughters of other coaches or faculty, kids whose parents he wants in the softball boosters, etc.). when they vote for captains at the end of the season, he makes sure that the captains are chosen who have parents that like him, and/or includes DD of the Softball Boosters President.
I know DD earned her spot and is lucky to have done so. There is one player (Sophmore) who has been working hard in the off-season and has become a much stronger player than before. she has become a JV/V bubble player but had to watch a couple of lightweights getting preferential treatment and making the V team. totally knocked her down. she wanted this bad, not just as a status symbol like others.
in addition, he's not a good coach.BUT...DD will learn mental toughness from him, so thats a good thing as long as no damage results.
I know from reading this board there are many high schools that have good programs, but many do not.
DD #1 played on this team when she was in HS so we already know how this coach operates,. I have found it is best, and continue to remind myself, to avoid the negative and focus on the positive. He is a football coach who is a personal friend of the AD (who is the Football Head Coach). Every year there are kids who make the Varsity team for the wrong reason(kids who pay for hitting instruction from him, Sisters of players he likes, daughters of other coaches or faculty, kids whose parents he wants in the softball boosters, etc.). when they vote for captains at the end of the season, he makes sure that the captains are chosen who have parents that like him, and/or includes DD of the Softball Boosters President.
I know DD earned her spot and is lucky to have done so. There is one player (Sophmore) who has been working hard in the off-season and has become a much stronger player than before. she has become a JV/V bubble player but had to watch a couple of lightweights getting preferential treatment and making the V team. totally knocked her down. she wanted this bad, not just as a status symbol like others.
in addition, he's not a good coach.BUT...DD will learn mental toughness from him, so thats a good thing as long as no damage results.
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