So when the Ivies and Patriot League schools claim the average financial aid given is $30K-$40K per year per student the lions share of that is needs based
Lots of great information in this thread so just want to clarify one thing for those looking at high academic schools. The Ivies ONLY give need based aid. No athletic or merit money is available. The one benefit to this is you don't need to wait for a coach to let you know how much they can offer you. You can do a google search for the school's net price calculator, input some financial info and have a really close estimate to your expected cost should your DD gain admission. Here is a sample from my Dd's(2022) future home.
Net Price Calculator | Financial Aid
financialaid.dartmouth.edu