Need your help.
I have noticed this over the past few years but don't know how to handle it. Any help would be appreciated.
My kid performs exceptional during tryouts... She is extremely motivated to be the best she can be when people are assessing her. However after she makes the team/league/level/ she loses interest and fails to perform at the same level she does during tryouts.
Tonight she took part in an "A" level tryout for an elite team in her age group. She was so amped for the tryout that I was scared that she would be nervous.
I sat on the bench and watched a girl who I've know for 12 years perform like someone I've never seen before. She's a pitcher and tonight she looked like Lisa Fernandez. I don't say that tounge and cheek she had an out of body experience. There were a few kids trying out and one parent asked me "is that your kid"... I said "no"
On the way home the wife called and asked how she did... I said.... Well they loved her, but I wished they would have seen her pitch in a game.
She get's the Yips in games and can sometimes lose focus. Part of it may be the lack of confidence in the fielding and her desire to strike every girl out... but what can I do to stoke that "tryout fire" in her every day?
My wife said to me tonight... "She would be better swimming.. as she is not a team player and only really cares about herself". I refuse to believe this. DD told me tonight " I just want to be on a team that wins, our team struggles and I love my teammates but it's so nice to win".
I pushed back with "it's your job to go out there and do your very best to limit any runs.
Any advice?
I have noticed this over the past few years but don't know how to handle it. Any help would be appreciated.
My kid performs exceptional during tryouts... She is extremely motivated to be the best she can be when people are assessing her. However after she makes the team/league/level/ she loses interest and fails to perform at the same level she does during tryouts.
Tonight she took part in an "A" level tryout for an elite team in her age group. She was so amped for the tryout that I was scared that she would be nervous.
I sat on the bench and watched a girl who I've know for 12 years perform like someone I've never seen before. She's a pitcher and tonight she looked like Lisa Fernandez. I don't say that tounge and cheek she had an out of body experience. There were a few kids trying out and one parent asked me "is that your kid"... I said "no"
On the way home the wife called and asked how she did... I said.... Well they loved her, but I wished they would have seen her pitch in a game.
She get's the Yips in games and can sometimes lose focus. Part of it may be the lack of confidence in the fielding and her desire to strike every girl out... but what can I do to stoke that "tryout fire" in her every day?
My wife said to me tonight... "She would be better swimming.. as she is not a team player and only really cares about herself". I refuse to believe this. DD told me tonight " I just want to be on a team that wins, our team struggles and I love my teammates but it's so nice to win".
I pushed back with "it's your job to go out there and do your very best to limit any runs.
Any advice?
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