Didnt learn about the regret until many years later, learning from the things I missed out on. At 15 i was a good football player, starter, and had a decent chance of playing in college. I chose to quit in the 10th grade and get a job, because I thought I needed to. Years later regretted it upon learning all the things I had missed out on. My parents never pushed me or talked to me about it, but I wished they would have. But I only played one sport. My DD is in softball, band, and basketball. She just may need a break. They have a meeting for basketball this week, I will see what she decides to do. There is a difference in what I call instant regret, and age old regret. Maybe not enough of a regret to worry about, who knows.Hmmm there's an influence to this...
Are you saying you learned about regret?
She's only 14 she can make a different decision next year if she needs to. What happened to live and learn?! Can you really teach your daughter this lesson you learned ?... asking because you learned your lesson through experiencing your decision.
just perspective.