My opinion is that of course you can motivate players to play harder or work harder, but isn't that different that what he was asking about being innately competitive and driven. And I think "loving it" in your second question is also a completely different thing. I would say that most of the girls on the teams my DD has been on "love it" more than my DD but they are out there just as much for the social part and the big bows in the hair and the pool parties at the hotel. She just wants to hit the fricken ball and strike out the #4 hitter. I'm sure a good coach can help someone find their competitive side if they don't know they have it. But i would like to conjecture that if you're kid has a competitive side you've seen it already.
Lol. I laugh at the big bow part. It took 2 years of my wife and a team mom to talk my DD to wear a bow in her hair. Most of the girls did on the team. She thought it was fine for other girls but not for her. She is girly to a point and likes her hair braided (just so she doesn't have to keep redoing it all day). The bow didn't last past the lead off hitter in the first tournament of this spring getting a base hit. She gave them a stink eye, jerked it out, called time and threw it in the dugout. Don't know what ever happened to that bow. She proceeded to K the next 3 batters on 10 pitches. Wife and other mom apologized and told her she never has to wear one again.
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