I was just wondering where folks would fall on this. Kind of figured there'd be "the rules are the rules" folks and "it's kind of a special situation" folks.
The sisters need to play in their own division, you can't please all families. Everyone has unique situations.
Letting a special needs child play down is NOT precedent for another child playing down because of transportation difficulties.
From my experience as a commish, slippery slope applies. You make this exception for a family dealing with cancer, do you make an exception for the family whose mom works 16 hours a day and will struggle to get kids to different practices? Or any of the other things that will inevitably crop up?
What the family is going through is terrible and they deserve sympathy. However, they do not deserve special treatment.
If an exception is made, it should be the younger girl allowed to play up to the older girls age group.
No, but it is precedent for playing down for whatever reason. IOW, exceptions have been made for special cases.
The younger girl would have to play up 2 age groups, also not allowed by the rules. She is allowed to play up on year in age, so as an 11 year old.
I think the special needs girl is OK because Safety is the primary reason.
In the second case if I understand it correctly you have two girls and their proper age groups are 10U and 15U ...they need to play in their own division (IF the ages were closer I probably would accommodate the request). I understand this will be a hardship on an already hard situation, but I think this is exactly what community rec league is all about, once people get to know the girls and the situation my guess is you will have each girl making friends (probably already knows a few girls from school) and parents pitching in offering rides and doing what ever they can to help, I have seen it happen many times.