Will she being doing games by herself? Or with partner? Hopefully with a partner, and ask him/her to carefully pregame, and give feedback.
Ideally, if there's an ump you know/respect that can take her out to the field even for an hour and do a clinic that would probably go a long way for her confidence. Ask the assigner for a recommendation on who she can reach out to. If not, watch games, as many as she can, to learn basic mechanics.
Remind her that it's rec, the stakes are low, so messing up (and she will) isn't the end of the world.
Don't let coaches bully you - half of them don't know the rules, or think they know the rules, or know baseball rules or rules they mislearned somewhere in a beer league or somewhere else.
Hustle. Know the rules as best she can. Hydrate. Keep learning. Don't let the turkeys drag you down.
I am curious, do you call differently for rec than you do for higher level? i.e. with the low quality pitching she saw in her 1st rec game the other night, are you a little more lenient with balls and strikes or do you call it the same as you would a higher level game?I am an adult that does rec games as well as higher level games. It will be the parents and coaches that give you the most trouble. Try to tune it out, but if it gets too much or is personal let the coaches know that you are their partner in the rec season, not their adversary. Rec should be for fun and building skills for those that want to move up. Sometimes I hate that we even keep score!
I am also on our local softball rec council board. So prior to the season I go over with them what the strike zone will be and I tell them I will expand 1 ball off the plate either way and I will go knees to sternum (which somehow becomes letters when they want to complain). For my higher level ball it is the strike zone as defined by USA Softball. I refuse to call the looping, high pitch a strike. It only reinforces bad habits in hitters as I watch them swing above their heads!I am curious, do you call differently for rec than you do for higher level? i.e. with the low quality pitching she saw in her 1st rec game the other night, are you a little more lenient with balls and strikes or do you call it the same as you would a higher level game?
I am curious, do you call differently for rec than you do for higher level? i.e. with the low quality pitching she saw in her 1st rec game the other night, are you a little more lenient with balls and strikes or do you call it the same as you would a higher level game?