- Mar 15, 2016
- 5
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My DD plays for a 14U tournament team. We have pickup games with other local area teams during the week just to get more field time for our girls. We are a small community (4A High School). Our coach is amazing and is truly dedicated to the sport and the girls coming through. Her ultimate goal is to build these girls as they come up through these programs and move into HS. Many have stated and believe that this current group of girls have the making of a State Championship Team in HS.
Our current group of 14U girls is ridiculously athletic and a talented group of players. However, since we are a small area and teams and programs are limited, we have 3 girls on the team that have never played before. The coach has worked with these girls at practices and is always encouraging with them. She has even offered to work with them individually in the off season. They get more playing time in the weeknight games, but recently have been made aware that when it comes to tournament play they may see very limited time on the field. Some parents are not happy about this. We also have a couple players that are great teammates and encourage each other, but the spots they play (not utility players) are filled by a better player. To make the adjustments that their parents are demanding would make NO sense and hurt the team on the field.
I understand the frustration of the parents. And I see both sides of this. And yes, MY DD does get playing time on the field. She is a utility player (Pitcher, 2B, 3B, CF) with a good bat. But.... with that being said, my DD also puts in a ton of time outside of practices and games and in the off season. She sees a pitching coach 2x's a week, gets help with her hitting and attends clinics when she can. She LOVES the game and we support her in any way we can. Some of these parents make rude comments out loud within ear shot about my DD getting playing time while theirs is on the bench. I know it is out of frustration from them, but what they don't realize is that I have cause for frustration also.... my DD has taken pitching lessons for the last 3 years and seen less mound time than any pitcher on the team. She is younger than our top pitcher ... and she hasn't had the chance to prove herself to the coach yet. She struggles at times with having confidence in herself on the mound, but has made leaps and bounds with it BECAUSE of her coach this year being so encouraging.
So my question is this (sorry for the long rant)...... am I the only one thinking that 14U is the level where these girls should be stepping up as a competitive team and building on the skills they have? Or is it still acceptable to allow small town "Rec Ball" type drama to determine playing time for these girls that have NEVER played before? I believe that is 8U-12U logic... But it's time to step up at this point and build a better program.
Our current group of 14U girls is ridiculously athletic and a talented group of players. However, since we are a small area and teams and programs are limited, we have 3 girls on the team that have never played before. The coach has worked with these girls at practices and is always encouraging with them. She has even offered to work with them individually in the off season. They get more playing time in the weeknight games, but recently have been made aware that when it comes to tournament play they may see very limited time on the field. Some parents are not happy about this. We also have a couple players that are great teammates and encourage each other, but the spots they play (not utility players) are filled by a better player. To make the adjustments that their parents are demanding would make NO sense and hurt the team on the field.
I understand the frustration of the parents. And I see both sides of this. And yes, MY DD does get playing time on the field. She is a utility player (Pitcher, 2B, 3B, CF) with a good bat. But.... with that being said, my DD also puts in a ton of time outside of practices and games and in the off season. She sees a pitching coach 2x's a week, gets help with her hitting and attends clinics when she can. She LOVES the game and we support her in any way we can. Some of these parents make rude comments out loud within ear shot about my DD getting playing time while theirs is on the bench. I know it is out of frustration from them, but what they don't realize is that I have cause for frustration also.... my DD has taken pitching lessons for the last 3 years and seen less mound time than any pitcher on the team. She is younger than our top pitcher ... and she hasn't had the chance to prove herself to the coach yet. She struggles at times with having confidence in herself on the mound, but has made leaps and bounds with it BECAUSE of her coach this year being so encouraging.
So my question is this (sorry for the long rant)...... am I the only one thinking that 14U is the level where these girls should be stepping up as a competitive team and building on the skills they have? Or is it still acceptable to allow small town "Rec Ball" type drama to determine playing time for these girls that have NEVER played before? I believe that is 8U-12U logic... But it's time to step up at this point and build a better program.