This is simple. You and your DD feel ROTC is more important than softball. This is your priority. The coach feels softball is more important than ROTC his priority. My DD would never chose another activity over softball...her priority. All choices are individual and valid. All choices have consequences. Coaches choice is going to lose him a solid player. Your choice means she doesn't want to play softball anymore. This is OK she clearly loves and wants to do ROTC. More power to her and lots of luck in the future.
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